Author: NDS.2020

Extremism is a complex phenomenon that cannot be reduced to a single cause, ideology or motivation. Extremists are not a homogeneous group of people who share the same beliefs, goals or methods. They are individuals who have diverse backgrounds, experiences and grievances that lead them to adopt radical views and actions.

However, many of the mainstream narratives and policies that address extremism tend to oversimplify and demonize extremists, portraying them as irrational, evil or brainwashed. This approach not only fails to understand the root causes and drivers of extremism, but also alienates and stigmatizes those who are involved or at risk of involvement in extremist movements.

A more nuanced and empathetic approach to extremism is needed, one that recognises the human dimension of extremism and seeks to understand the personal and social factors that influence people’s choices and behaviours. Such an approach does not condone or justify extremism, but rather acknowledges the complexity and diversity of human motivations and emotions.

An empathetic approach to extremism also implies a willingness to engage with extremists and their supporters, rather than isolate or exclude them. Engagement does not mean acceptance or agreement, but rather dialogue and communication. By listening to their perspectives and stories, we can gain a deeper insight into their worldview and needs, as well as identify potential points of common ground and cooperation.

Engagement also creates opportunities for prevention and intervention, by offering alternative narratives and pathways that can challenge or change extremist views and actions. By providing support, guidance and positive role models, we can help extremists and their supporters to disengage from violence and reintegrate into society.

The nuanced and empathetic approach to extremism is not a naive or soft approach. It is a realistic and effective approach that recognizes the complexity and humanity of extremism, and seeks to address it in a holistic and constructive way.

In the age of social media, we are constantly exposed to the opinions and preferences of others. We can easily see how many people like, love, or react to a post, a comment, or a message. But what about the opposite? What about the people who don’t like something, or who disagree with it, or who find it offensive or annoying? Where is the option to express that?

The word ‘dislike’ seems to have disappeared from our online vocabulary. It is rarely used as a verb, and even less as a noun. Instead, we have more euphemistic ways of showing our displeasure, such as ‘unfollow’, ‘mute’, ‘block’, or ‘report’. Or we resort to more aggressive forms of criticism, such as ‘troll’, ‘hate’, ‘cancel’, or ‘roast’. There seems to be no middle ground between indifference and hostility.

Why is this the case? Why are we afraid to say that we dislike something or someone? Is it because we fear the backlash of others who might disagree with us? Is it because we want to avoid conflict and maintain a positive image? Is it because we don’t want to hurt the feelings of the person or entity behind the content? Or is it because we have lost the ability to articulate our reasons for disliking something in a respectful and constructive way?

Whatever the reason, I think we need to reclaim the word ‘dislike’. It is a perfectly valid and useful expression of our personal taste and judgment. It does not mean that we are hateful, intolerant, or ignorant. It does not mean that we are trying to impose our views on others or that we are rejecting their views. It simply means that we have a different perspective, preference, or experience.

Disliking something does not have to be a negative or destructive act. It can be an opportunity to learn more about ourselves and others, to explore different viewpoints and arguments, to challenge our assumptions and biases, and to grow as individuals and as a society. Disliking something can also help us appreciate what we do like more, and to express our gratitude and admiration for it.

So let’s not be afraid to use the word ‘dislike’. Let’s not shy away from expressing our honest opinions and feelings. Let’s not censor ourselves or others for having different tastes and perspectives. Let’s respect each other’s right to dislike something, and let’s try to understand why they do. Let’s use the word ‘dislike’ as a tool for dialogue, not for division.

In a world of growing discontent, one word is used more than most and that is the word hate. Hate is a strong and negative emotion that can lead to violence, discrimination, and intolerance. But what does it really mean to hate someone or something? And why do we use this word so casually and frequently? In this blog post, I will explore the meaning and origin of the word hate, the psychological and social factors that contribute to hate, and the possible ways to reduce hate and promote understanding and respect.

The word hate comes from the Old English word hatian, which means “to regard with extreme ill-will, have a passionate aversion to, treat as an enemy”. The word has been used in various contexts and languages throughout history, such as the Latin word odium, which means “hatred, spite, offense”, the Greek word miseo, which means “to hate, abhor, detest”, and the Hebrew word sane, which means “to hate, be hostile”. Hate is often associated with other negative emotions, such as anger, fear, envy, jealousy, and contempt. Hate can also be influenced by cognitive biases, such as stereotyping, prejudice, scapegoating, and dehumanization. Hate can motivate people to harm or exclude others who are perceived as different or threatening.

However, hate is not a fixed or innate trait that we are born with. Hate is a learned and dynamic emotion that can change over time and circumstances. Hate can also be unlearned and replaced with more positive emotions, such as empathy, compassion, and love. Some of the possible ways to reduce hate and increase understanding and respect are:

• Educating ourselves and others about the diversity and complexity of human beings and cultures.
• Challenging our own assumptions and biases and seeking out different perspectives and experiences.
• Communicating respectfully and constructively with others who have different opinions or beliefs.
• Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness and managing our own emotions effectively.
• Practicing kindness and generosity and helping others in need.
• Seeking common ground and shared values with others and building trust and cooperation.

In conclusion, hate is a powerful and harmful emotion that can cause a lot of damage to ourselves and others. But we can also choose to overcome hate and cultivate more positive emotions that can enrich our lives and relationships. Instead of using the word hate so lightly and frequently, we can use more nuanced and accurate words that reflect our true feelings and intentions. And instead of saying “I hate you” or “I hate this”, we can say “I dislike you” or “I dislike this” or better yet, “I disagree with you” or “I prefer something else”. By doing so, we can reduce the intensity and negativity of our emotions and open up more possibilities for dialogue and understanding.

The rise of far right movements and parties across the world poses a serious threat to democracy, human rights, and social justice. Far right rhetoric often relies on spreading a mixture of peoples genuine concerns with misinformation, fear, and hatred, while scapegoating vulnerable groups such as immigrants, refugees, minorities, and LGBTQ+ people. How can we counter this dangerous trend and promote a more inclusive, tolerant, and progressive society?

One way to challenge the far right rhetoric is to engage and expose its lies and contradictions. We can use reliable sources of information, such as academic research, independent media, and fact-checking organizations, to debunk the myths and propaganda that the far right uses to manipulate public opinion. We can also use social media platforms, online forums, and personal networks to share accurate and evidence-based information with our friends, family, and community.

Another way to challenge the far right rhetoric is to engage in constructive dialogue with those who are influenced by it. We can try to understand their concerns and grievances, and offer alternative perspectives and solutions that are based on facts, reason, and empathy. We can also try to find common ground and values that we share with them, such as respect for human dignity, freedom of expression, and social responsibility. We can avoid name-calling, insults, and personal attacks, as they only fuel hostility and polarization.

A third way to challenge the far right rhetoric is to support and amplify the voices of those who are marginalized and oppressed by it. We can join forces with civil society organizations, social movements, and activist groups that advocate for the rights and interests of the groups that the far right targets. We can also participate in campaigns, protests, and events that celebrate diversity, solidarity, and democracy. We can show our support by donating, volunteering, or simply spreading the word.

These are some of the ways that I think, From what I have learnt from my journey and the many people I speak too. We can challenge the far right rhetoric and create a more positive and peaceful world. It is not an easy task, but it is a necessary one. We cannot afford to be silent or passive in the face of hatred, intolerance and the ever growing discontent. We have to stand up for what we believe in and defend our common humanity.

Islamophobia is a becoming serious problem that affects many people in the UK and beyond. It is a form of discrimination and prejudice that targets Muslims or those perceived to be Muslims based on their appearance, beliefs, culture or identity. Islamophobia can manifest in various ways, such as verbal abuse, physical violence, vandalism, harassment, exclusion, stereotyping and hate crimes.

However, Islamophobia is not only a problem for Muslims. It is also a threat to the values of democracy, diversity and human rights that the UK stands for. Islamophobia undermines social cohesion, fuels extremism and radicalisation, and creates divisions and mistrust among communities. Therefore, combating Islamophobia is a responsibility for all of us who care about the future of our society.

But how do we combat Islamophobia effectively? There is no simple or quick answer to this question, but there are some possible steps that we can take to address this issue. Here are some suggestions, From what I have learnt from my own personal journey from ‘Hater to the Hated’

• Educate ourselves and others about Islam and Muslims. Many people have misconceptions or stereotypes about Islam and Muslims that are based on ignorance, misinformation or media bias. By learning more about the history, diversity, values and practices of Islam and Muslims, we can challenge these negative views and foster mutual understanding and respect.
• Speak out against Islamophobia whenever we encounter it. Whether it is online or offline, in public or private, we should not remain silent or indifferent when we witness or experience Islamophobia. We should report it, condemn it and challenge it with facts and arguments. We should also support the victims of Islamophobia and show solidarity with them.
• Build bridges and alliances with other communities. Islamophobia is not an isolated phenomenon. It is often linked to other forms of racism, bigotry and intolerance that affect different groups of people. By reaching out to other communities that face similar challenges, we can share our experiences, learn from each other and work together to promote a more inclusive and harmonious society.
• Engage in constructive dialogue with those who have different opinions or perspectives. Not everyone who has negative views about Islam or Muslims is necessarily hateful or malicious. Some may be genuinely curious, confused or concerned about certain issues related to Islam or Muslims. By engaging in respectful and rational dialogue with them, we can address their questions, clarify their doubts and correct their misunderstandings.
• Recognise and challenge the root causes of Islamophobia. Islamophobia is not a natural or inevitable phenomenon. It is a product of social, political and economic factors that create fear, resentment and hostility towards certain groups of people. By recognising and challenging these factors, such as inequality, injustice, oppression, violence and propaganda, we can tackle the underlying sources of Islamophobia and create a more just and peaceful world.

These are some possible ways to combat Islamophobia in the UK. However, they are not enough by themselves. They require the commitment and cooperation of all stakeholders in society, such as governments, media, civil society organisations, religious institutions, educational institutions and individuals. Only by working together can we make a difference.

Some extremist Muslims also contribute to the problem of Islamophobia by engaging in violent or radical actions that harm innocent people and tarnish the image of Islam. However, they do not represent the majority of Muslims who are peaceful, law-abiding and respectful of others. They are also victims of the same factors that fuel Islamophobia, such as marginalisation, alienation and manipulation. Therefore, we should not blame or stigmatise all Muslims for the actions of a few. Instead, we should support the efforts of mainstream Muslims to counter extremism and violence within their own communities and to promote a more authentic and positive representation of Islam.

Immigration is a complex and controversial topic that affects many aspects of society, such as the economy, culture, security, and human rights. In this blog post, I don’t declare I’m an expert on this issue but I will try to address some of the genuine concerns that people have around immigration and possible solutions that could benefit both the host countries and the immigrants.

One of the main concerns that people have is the impact of immigration on the labour market and the welfare system. Some people fear that immigrants take away jobs from native workers, lower wages, or abuse social benefits. However, research has shown that immigration can have positive effects on the economy, such as increasing productivity, innovation, and diversity. Moreover, immigrants often fill labour shortages in sectors that are vital for society, such as health care, education, and agriculture. A possible solution to address this concern is to implement fair and efficient policies that regulate the entry and integration of immigrants, such as skills-based visas, labour market tests, or quotas. These policies could ensure that immigrants match the needs and demands of the host country, while also protecting the rights and interests of native workers.

Another concern that people have is the impact of immigration on the culture and identity of the host country. Some people worry that immigrants do not share the same values, norms, or traditions as the native population, or that they pose a threat to the national security or social cohesion. However, research has shown that immigration can enrich the culture and diversity of the host country, as well as foster mutual understanding and tolerance among different groups. Moreover, immigrants often contribute to the social and civic life of the host country, such as by volunteering, paying taxes, or voting. A possible solution to address this concern is to promote intercultural dialogue and education that respect and celebrate the diversity of cultures, religions, and languages. These initiatives could help to build trust and cooperation between immigrants and natives, while also preserving the core values and identity of the host country.

In conclusion, immigration is a multifaceted phenomenon that can bring both challenges and opportunities for the host country and the immigrants. By acknowledging and addressing the genuine concerns that people have around immigration, we can find solutions that are fair, humane, and beneficial for all.

In this blog post, I want to address a question that has been bothering me for a long time: why is it so hard for us to engage in constructive dialogue about the challenges and opportunities that we face in our society? Why do we tend to avoid or dismiss the perspectives and experiences of those who disagree with us, instead of trying to understand them and find common ground? Why do we let the most extreme and divisive voices dominate the public discourse, while the majority of us remain silent or apathetic? And what are the consequences of this situation for our democracy, our communities, and our future?

I believe that these questions are crucial for us to reflect on, especially in a time when we are facing unprecedented discontent, and the spread of misinformation and hate. These issues require us to work together, to listen to each other, to learn from each other, and to find solutions that are fair, effective, and sustainable. However, this is not possible if we are not willing or able to have difficult conversations about them.

Difficult conversations are those that involve topics that are complex, controversial, sensitive, or emotionally charged. They are also those that challenge our assumptions, values, beliefs, or identities. They can make us feel uncomfortable, defensive, angry, or vulnerable. They can also trigger strong reactions from others who may disagree with us or misunderstand us. Therefore, many of us tend to avoid them or handle them poorly. We may resort to silence, denial, evasion, or aggression. We may also seek out information or opinions that confirm our existing views and ignore or reject those that contradict them. This is known as confirmation bias.

However, by avoiding or mishandling difficult conversations, we are missing out on valuable opportunities to learn, grow, and improve ourselves and our relationships. We are also allowing the space for dialogue to be filled by those who have no interest in finding common ground or solving problems. These are the far-right and controversial voices that exploit our fears, prejudices, and frustrations to promote their agendas of division and hatred. They use inflammatory rhetoric, sensationalism, and misinformation to attract attention and influence people. They also create echo chambers where their followers only hear what they want to hear and reinforce each other’s biases and extremism. This can lead some people down a rabbit hole where they become isolated from reality and vulnerable to radicalisation.

This is a dangerous situation for our society because it undermines our social cohesion, our trust in each other and in our institutions, and our ability to cooperate and collaborate for the common good. It also erodes our critical thinking skills, our empathy, and our sense of responsibility. It makes us more susceptible to manipulation and deception by those who seek to exploit us or harm us.

Therefore, I think it is imperative that we reclaim the space for dialogue and have more difficult conversations about the issues that matter to us. We need to break out of our bubbles and echo chambers and expose ourselves to different perspectives and experiences. We need to challenge ourselves and others to think critically, creatively, and compassionately. We need to respect ourselves and others as human beings who have dignity, rights, and potential. We need to acknowledge our differences but also recognise our commonalities. We need to seek understanding before judgment, agreement before conflict, and action before complacency.

This is not easy but it is possible. And it is necessary if we want to create a better world for ourselves and for future generations.

People are still asking what fuels Islamophobia. Where do people think the peddlers of Islamophobia get their fuel from? Just click the link and watch the clip below and see why some people feel Muslims are a threat to the West. This is the kind of propaganda that spreads fear and hatred among the public, and creates a hostile environment for Muslims in the UK.

A lesson we should learn from the past is that Anjem Choudary had a lot of influence and charisma in his time, and many people like myself who grew up Watching or reading about him in the media and never saw him questioned or challenged on his views or arguments. He created a sense of division, and it was easy to fall into that trap of the ‘US and THEM’ narrative coming from a white town like mine, Especially once I was in the echo chambers I perceived AC was the voice of the UK Muslim community.

The Muslim community needs to been seen challenging this kind of rhetoric in Mosques and speaking out about it, as do we all. I have experienced radicalisation first-hand and I know how dangerous it can be. That’s why I share my story with others, to help them understand the root causes of hatred and how to prevent it from taking over. I think it’s important to address the factors that make people vulnerable to extremist ideologies, such as social isolation, trauma, injustice, or resentment. These are the things that we often ignore or neglect until it’s too late and someone has already been radicalised.

TalkTV on X: “EXCLUSIVE: A TalkTV investigation has unearthed footage of hate preachers in several UK mosques calling for Jewish people to be killed, amid the Israel-Hamas conflict. https://t.co/b7f1M946JI” / X (twitter.com)

In recent weeks, we have witnessed a surge of protests across the world, sparked by various social and political issues. Some of these protests have been peaceful and well-organized, while others have turned violent and chaotic. But what is the motivation behind these protesters? Do they really care about the causes they are fighting for, or are they just following a trend?

A worrying phenomenon that has emerged from the online coverage of these protests is the apparent lack of awareness and knowledge among some of the participants. Many of them seem to have joined the protests without doing any research or critical thinking about the issues at stake. They simply follow the crowd, wear the slogans, and chant the slogans, without understanding what they mean or what they imply.

This is what I call “protest fashion”: a superficial and shallow engagement with social movements that is driven by peer pressure, social media influence, or personal gratification, rather than by genuine conviction, passion, or solidarity. Protest fashion is dangerous because it undermines the credibility and legitimacy of the movements, dilutes their messages, and exposes the protesters to manipulation and radicalization by extremist groups.

Protest fashion is not a new phenomenon. It has been observed in previous historical periods, such as the 1960s counterculture, the 1980s punk scene, or the 1990s grunge movement. However, in the age of the internet and social media, protest fashion has become more widespread and accessible than ever before. Anyone can join a protest with a few clicks, without having to invest time, effort, or money in learning about the issues or getting involved in the organizations.

This is not to say that all protesters are ignorant or insincere. There are many people who are genuinely committed to the causes they support, who have done their homework, for their beliefs.

But we should also be aware of the dangers of protest fashion, and how it can harm both the protesters and the movements they claim to represent. We should encourage critical thinking, informed debate, and responsible activism among ourselves and others. We should not let protest fashion become a substitute for real engagement with social change.

I had the opportunity to share my personal story of how I overcame hate and embraced change with a group of people from different faiths and backgrounds. This was part of the Waveney Interfaith Circle’s program for the National Interfaith Week, which aims to promote dialogue and understanding among different religions.

I was invited by a local Muslim revert lady who I had been chatting with online for about a year. She was interested in hearing about my journey from being involved in Hate to becoming an advocate for peace and tolerance. We had to postpone our meeting twice because of my health issues and the passing of my mother in September.

But finally, I was able to fulfill my promise and give my talk to her interfaith group. I was warmly welcomed by the participants, who listened attentively and asked thoughtful questions. I felt a sense of connection and respect with them, despite our different beliefs and experiences. I hope that my talk inspired them to challenge hate and prejudice in their own communities and to seek out more opportunities for interfaith dialogue and cooperation.